Sunday, November 11, 2012
Shopping for a man. Part 1
I've been on a small rollercoaster of emotions the recent days.
Last Thursday I had decided to creat an account on a dating site that I had seen had a few guys from my region. Once logged in, I realized that on average, they had not logged in for about 2 years!! That was a bummer. So I decided to create an account on another site. Then again, there is nobody from my region. Bigger bummer.
On Friday night, I was a bit depressed about it even if I recognized that I was being impatient.
On Saturday morning, I remembered that there was a guy who works in the local mall who I think is cute and is probably gay (I know, stereotypes.... but I have no gaydar at all!!) So with a lot of fear and the support from some friends on the gay chat room, I decided to go see the guy and try something.
I went to the mall and arrived in front of his boutique (a clothes' boutique). I saw he was there, but there were also at least 3 other "salesman/woman" and a few customers so I was really intimidated. I think I panicked and I decided to go back in my car to breath. I stayed there for 30 minutes before entering in the mall again. There were less customers so eventually I decided to enter.
Of course, there was a flaw in my plan, as it is not the guy I wanted to see that approached me to help me with my shopping, but another one!! But, as a consolation, that new guy was really hot! I was trying to get glimpses at the guy I went there to see, but he doesn't really cared about me (I thought maybe he could have recognized me but maybe not... he didn't show interest in me at all). So I started looking at different pieces of clothes for the upper body. The hot guy was very nice with me and when I noticed his butt, I started to forget the other guy LOL.
It turns out that I think that the hot guy was trying to flirt with me.... but I'm not 100% sure. He was touching me a bit more than the usual salesman. But, what rang the alarm in my head was when he was trying to convince me to buy a winter jacket. I said no and to try to convince me a last time, he said "Maybe if I do the pretty eyes to you??" And he did the pretty eyes!!! After that he laughed to show that he was joking, but still... I've asked a lot of people if there is a chance that he's straight if he did that and most would be shocked if he turns out to be straight.
In the end, I purchased 5 items and it cost me quite a bit!!! But, after I had paid, he gave me the 2 bags of clothes and asked my name! (That has never happened to me before!! There must really be something going on with that guy!!) So I gave him my name and he return he told me his. He thanked me for my time shopping and I thanked him for helping me. Then, I left. I guess I should have tried to push things but I was just so surprised by everything....
Again, the fact that he asked my name, for those I asked, it seems like a big signs that he's interested in me. I seriously don't know because I have no idea how the seduction signs work!!
So yesterday night I was quite happy!!! I went shopping for a guy, but in the end, I picked another guy ( he picked me actually) and bought some clothes. I had a smile on my face all night long yesterday.
Since I don't want him to forget me, I know I have to make a move soon. I decided to go back to the mall today. Sadly, my plan was not good at all, so I didn't meet him, even if I saw he was there. I try not to be so hard on myself about it. I think I'm getting better now.
My shopping is not over :) I'll try to go back this week. I really don't know what his schedule is and I want to see him when there is not a lot of people around. I'll go on y lunchtimes, hoping that he's there and that nobody shops clothes on lunchtime! Did I mention that apart from being very cute, he's also very sweet and nice and adorable??
So, what do you guys think?? What are the odds that he's interested in me??
(to be continued when something happens!!)