|ME||I just called|
|HIM||a n d?|
|HIM||get a name?|
|ME||not even LOL|
|ME||So I called a first time like 7 minutes ago|
|ME||I say to the girl who answer: can i talk to a blond waiter I know he worked last saturday do you know if he,s working now|
|ME||Oh I don,t know I'm at a calling center|
|ME||I cannot transfer you because they,re business hours are closed|
|ME||but i can let them a message|
|ME||I hesitated and I said no I'll call back|
|ME||So I ended the call|
|ME||I was kinda mad cause 10 minutes before it was during the business hours....|
|ME||I thought fast|
|ME||and decided to call back|
|ME||So I called again|
|HIM||get a different girl?|
|ME||no the same girl|
|ME||but I told her that i wanted to left a message in the end|
|ME||So I give my name (full name!!)|
|ME||and my cell number|
|ME||she asks if there is another number just in case|
|ME||so I give my house number as well!!!|
|ME||She asks if it was about a question...|
|ME||i said no|
|ME||I want to talk to the blond waiter|
|ME||I dont know what she thought LOL|
|ME||So she's supposed to land them the message.....|
|ME||now I must wait|
|ME||but i dont even know if he works tonight, but chances are high|
|ME||i asked her if she knew the people working there and she said no|
|HIM||so what will you say when he calls you|
|ME||just a calling center|
|ME||not that brave... I spent 15 minutes staing at my phone before aclling|
|when he calls I'll make sure its the right guy|
|ME||Ill try not to baffle too much|
|HIM||and then say|
|HIM||saw you last week|
|HIM||you are really cute|
|HIM||like to gat a coffee somethign|
|ME||well first I'mm gonna ask him if he remembers me|
|ME||then when he will, I'll ask him if he'd like to have a drink with me sometime|
|HIM||ths does sound GOOD jf|
|HIM||very good infact|
|ME||I wonder how the info will be transferred to him and if people will make fun of him though... a guy who asks for him....|
|HIM||that will tell you somethign also|
|HIM||if he calles after that - after people joking|
|HIM||it will say that he actually MIGHT be gay and willing to meet somoene|
|ME||yes of course|
|HIM||and that would be a GOOD thing|
|ME||the worst thing is that I would never hear from him again|
|ME||which would not be so bad after all|
|HIM||well, that would also be a message|
|ME||well now I must wait|
|ME||different kind of nervousness|
|HIM||be certain to let us KNOW|
|ME||where my cellphone? need to find it!|
|HIM||L O L|
|ME||I just hope my memory is good and that he,s really blond!!!|
|HIM||ha ha ha|
|ME||kinda sad about the wole call center thing tho....|
|ME||not very romantic|
|HIM||yes - but it DOES show that you are determined|
|ME||it would have been much less complicated if I had realized last saturday that I needed to talk to him THEN|
|HIM||I bet you will never miss another opportunity like that again!!!!!|
|ME||I hope I can learn from that!|
Saturday, December 29, 2012
How to screw up your last chance with a guy in one simple lesson
I've been delaying this post a bit, waiting to see if things would unfold differently than what I thought.
To explain what happened concernaing the waiter, I'll begin by saying that in the end my "my allies" couldn't help me, so I had to work things up by myself.
To recall the events, here is a transcript of a discussion I had last saturday in the chat room. Sorry for the bad typing!!
So yeah, I did call.... I stared at my phone a long time before calling, but when I did it, I was decided and confident, which was a good thing. However, I couldn't talk to him directly, which was a bummer. I then had to wait!! But, a few minutes after that chat, I was chatting with Vickie on facebook. I had not told her yet that I had called the waiter and she told me that he was brown haired !!!!
Here's my reaction:
Me: Fuck Fuck!!!!!
Vickie: Don't worry you'll just have to do the same dirty dreams with a brown haired guy instead of a blond haired guy
Me: No!! I called and let a message to the blond waiter.... Fuck.....
Vickie: LOL!!!! Oh no!!!!!!
Me: You really sure he has brown hair?
Vickie: sure at 98%
Me: Fuckkkkk!!! I'm done... he'll never call me back now
Vickie: Yeah he porbably won't feel concerned about the call.
Me: I piss me off... I'm so stupid
Vickie: Ohhh I laugh so much I'm crying its crazy!!!
Me; LOL you piss me off... but at least I laugh too.
Vickie: Ahhh you've made my day!!!
Me: I knew I was not good noticing people's hair color... but this is worst than I could have imagined.
Vickie: You really are not talented at this!!
Me: Fuck... LOL
That's how I screwed my chance with the waiter... as you can imagine, 7 days later, he has not called back!! I'm pissed off at myself, but I don't take it too bad. I can even laugh about it, which is a good sign.
What I have learned from this is to take the opportunity when it arises (not wait later to come back or call back) and also to really observe the physical caracteristics of a guy I want to date cause it can become really handy !!
It will be hard for me to take the opportunity when it arises, because I have simply never done that. But at least now know what to work on!!! And I have some friends who are willing to help me :)