Wednesday, January 16, 2013
How my first date went!
I'm not kidding!! I had a date. Yesterday night!!
You probably think you missed a post or something. Well yeah... it's a post that I have not written yet!! I just want to write about my date now and get to the details of the "how come??" later!!
My date was at 18:30 in a restaurant in his own city, which is about 30 minutes from where I live. I was feeling well all day long and as the date approached, I did not get nervous, which was surprising. My date (I'll call him Flyman) had wanted to invite me at his apartment. I thought that was way too fast for a first date so I offered him to go at a restaurant instead. My initial plan was that we would go to the restaurant, than take a walk and that by around 21:00, I would leave because I still had to work the next morning. He had talked about going to see a movie in his apartment, but I didn't want to do that on a first date.
I arrived at the restaurant on time and Flyman was waiting for me outside the restaurant, as planned. The dinner went well, I was feeling comfortable. We talked about various things, from random things to coming out. He's younger than me and he is totally out to all people he knows. For him it happened much quicker than me. He told his parents first, then one of his friend who wrote it on facebook. And that was it!!
After that, we decided to take a walk, but his coat was not warm enoough for that. So we went to his apartment and he showed it to me. He put his warmer coat and we took our walk. We continued talking about various things.... and also about sex!!
He ended up knowing that I had never made love or kissed a man. He was very surprised, but he was ok with it. He asked if I was top or bottom! That made me laugh a lot!! I gave him my answer and he gave me his (you certainly are not thinking I'm going to give you the answer now!? Are you!?).
When the walk ended, it was about 21:00. Flyman invited me to go watch a movie inside and I decided to go. (Only fools don't change their mind!) In his living room, there is only a 1-place sofa... We were 2, right!? So we ended up watching the movie laying over a thick blanket, side by side, on the floor. We were really comfortable (at least I was!). We watched a romantic comedy, I don't remember the name, but it is with Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman. We randomly started talking at various points during the movie, asking questions to the other. I guess if someone had entered in the apartment he would have thought we were cute LOL!!
At the beginning of the movie, he caressed my arm a bit and held my hand for like 2 seconds, while saying he knew I was not comfortable with being cuddly with a guy and that he would respect that. So he let my hand go and he didn't do it again. Sometimes during the movie he was joking that everyone in the movie was cuddling but us! It was cute and I was still feeling comfortable about not being cuddly.
To be frank, I really think it is early to cuddle on a first date, especially for a guy like me who has never done it.
I could feel that he wanted to be more cuddly with me. Sometimes I was side-seeing that he was watching me. But I didn't look at him back cause I was really too shy to do it!!
At one point during the movie I had a really embarassing question that came to my mind and I started laughing. He wanted to know why but I couldn't tell him, I was way too embarassed! But he insisted so I ended up asking my question, to which he calmly answered.... (I won't reveal what was the question !!)
After the movie ended, it was already 23:00, so I had to go. We didn't kiss goodbye, but we hugged each other and both said that we had a nice evening. We even started talking about dating again during the next weekend.
There's much more to say about how I got that date, what I feel about Flyman, what will happen next, but that is enough for now! I'll try to update soon!!